I'm I wrong to expect an item I bought on NLG classifieds within a month?

[hotlsot]

HIs name in ebay is thovar-37. These types of people stain all of us that sell parts here on NLG. In all the years I've bought and sold parts here I've only had one complaint. I shipped the wrong part, my fault. I moved swiftly to make it right. The buyer got $120 worth of parts for no charge. So some of us here that aren't sponsors still do everything in our power to be fair and honest. Too bad people like this make the others members suspicious.

[shortrackskater]

HIs name in ebay is thovar-37. These types of people stain all of us that sell parts here on NLG. In all the years I've bought and sold parts here I've only had one complaint. I shipped the wrong part, my fault. I moved swiftly to make it right. The buyer got $120 worth of parts for no charge. So some of us here that aren't sponsors still do everything in our power to be fair and honest. Too bad people like this make the others members suspicious.

I gave him multiple chances to shape up yet he continued on delaying, not shipping, and not refunding in any timely manner whatsoever.
And yes, most ALL of the non-sponsor but contributing members have been fine in the past.
Recently I added this banner to the NLG classifieds.
It is HIGHLY RECOMMENDED you use payment forms with buyer/seller protection. NLG is not responsible for "transactions gone bad."
Hopefully we won't have this problem again.
I fail to understand why this guy couldn't just exhibit some common sense and reliability in his business?  
It's really not that difficult. 

[Stayouttadabunker]

Wow...I just went on ebay to see if thovar-37 was in my "saved sellers" list...fortunately he wasn't, but I seen a LOT of names of ebay sellers that are gone and don't sell much stuff anymore like "lemans1969","cindymdu", "dave_2000", "john42355", "neonslots"...you get the picture...haha

[jay]

Leemans was one of the really good ones, based in Ohio.
April was her first name. I believe her husband had a number of health problems so she may have retired.